- September 14 view article

Women more likely to lose interest in sex in long-term relationships

Everyone knows it can be difficult to keep the spark alive in a long-term relationship - but research suggests that it's women who go off the boil first. 

A study has found that women in relationships lasting for over a year were more likely to lose interest in sex than those who had been with their partner for a shorter period of time. 

Men, on the other hand, did not lose interest over time - reporting that their sex drive was equally strong no matter how long they had been in the relationship.

Women who lived with a partner were also more at risk of having a low sex drive, and were twice as likely to report a lack of interest in sex than their male counterparts.

Women were also more likely to be put off by a bad first sexual experience, the survey added, because they were more likely to have been pressured or to have regrets about the way they lost their virginity. 

"These findings suggest that for women early sexual experiences may shape future sexual encounters/relationships to a greater extent than for men," the report, an analysis of the third National Survey of Sexual Attitudes and Lifestyles, said. 

Researchers carrying out the survey interviewed 6,669 women and 4,839 men aged between 16 and 74 who reported having at least one sexual partner in the past year.

The findings, published in the BMJ Open, also suggested that men and women who believed stereotypes such as the idea that men had a higher sex drive were more likely to conform to them - suggesting that they were using them to explain away their own experiences. 

The report said: "Endorsing the assumption that ‘people want less sex as they age’ was associated with lack of interest in both genders. 

"It might be that this belief contributes to a decline in interest, or—equally plausible—that those who lack interest adopt this attitude to avoid viewing their experience as problematic. 

"Interestingly, men who endorsed the view that ‘men have a higher sex drive than women’ were significantly less likely to report lacking interest in sex, whereas women who agreed with this statement were more likely to do so."

In women only, low interest in sex was linked to having three or more partners in the past year, having children under five in the household, and not sharing a partner's sexual preferences.

Women whose general interests differed from those of their partners also experienced a lack of sex drive. - September 14 view article